Hello Friends and Foes ;), why did I address like this? Ummm Good question. The answer is because of the topic. The topic brings up all friend and foes together, whether you accept or not but this is vicious cycle that you would never want to be fall apart in between. But I am sure many of us never complete this cycle.
Why did I choose this Topic? Simple — I don’t know 🙂 , naaah I was just kidding. Actually since last one year I have been noticing this vicious cycle with or without any reason.
When I started my journey in IT world, I always used to hear from people that you should be aware of your surroundings. You should accept all those awareness as you don’t want to fall prey to your Foes. But you apply those stances only on our friends and not on Foes.
Did you notice I used all those words in on paragraph? The way they are linked to each other if you miss anyone or do not use either one then again you have to start from Aware.
Aware:
It’s a term that imparts information related to questions such as what, why, when, how.
“Have you ever heard from your grandparents, be aware if you do not listen, then boogie man will come and take you away”
As per today’s generation what do you say….. First You create Atmosphere, you identify what do others fear most. This age has completely surrounded us technologically. Hence every foe becomes our friend and then takes your information or credentials away and your are lost.
Accept:
The answers to the questions in Aware create situation to accept the threats. We are very well informed about consequences in aware, you accept those consequences. Examples: “Don’t take it lightly”, Terms and conditions of any software (There is only 2 buttons Accept or Deny – Agree of Disagree). Did you ever read those agreement or terms & conditions?
Now Personal Example: When Someone I know getting in marriage world, they are aware but still accept and get married. “Done your life is hell”. I did the same I was aware, I accepted it and finally I have to apply everything sustain. “You culprit smiling on my situation”?
Technical Example: We are made aware to change password of all our online or offline access (We are made aware), we are explained reasons (Now we accept).
Oh no Wife again: I tell my wife do not pamper our kid too much (Aware), I give her reason will all possible reason [You don’t want to know those reasons, Sorry “You have to find your own 🙂 ] She accepts those consequences. Now comes the best part.
Apply:
Most of us do not apply: We never change password, we accept terms conditions and conditions but still neglect and do not apply. MY WIFE: She never listens to me so never apply.
The cycle is broken and now again start from Aware – Accept ?? Apply.
Cautious Summary:
Awareness: Always aware of each and every questions you come across.
Acceptance: only when you are through solutions, recommendations and be responsible.
Apply: Apply when you are confident you can take care.
Let me know your thoughts.